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Peter Hamer

Silence to Advocacy

As a teenager attending Bell High School, I experienced sexual abuse by the music teacher - a betrayal that fundamentally altered the trajectory of my life. For decades, I carried this burden in silence, navigating the enduring impacts of severe trauma, including anxiety, depression, Complex PTSD, chronic depression, and substance use.


My silence ended in May 2016, when a news report revealed that another teacher at Bell High School - hired to replace my original abuser - had been arrested for similar offenses. Recognizing the systemic nature of the threat, I made the difficult decision to come forward to law enforcement. As the first survivor to break silence in this case, my disclosure initiated a broader investigation that ultimately led to the arrest, prosecution, and conviction of my former teacher, who was found guilty of abusing multiple students over a span of several decades.


Institutional Failures and the Cycle of Harm.


The systemic gaps that allowed this abuse to persist were apparent during my final year of high school. In an attempt to protect others, I reported the abuse directly to a teacher and subsequently to the school principal. The institutional response was profoundly inadequate. Rather than enacting strict child protection protocols, administration placed the burden of resolution on me, asking what I wanted done.


At my request - driven by a desire to protect my younger brother and my peers - the music teacher was quietly transferred to another school where he continued to sexually abuse students.


  • No report was filed with the police or provincial child protection authorities.
  • No notification was given to my parents.
  • No internal investigation was launched.


This administrative failure to act sent a devastating message that the harm inflicted upon me was unimportant. Consequently, the failure to terminate and report this predator allowed the cycle of abuse to continue, leaving subsequent generations of students vulnerable for years to come.

National Advocacy, Media Engagement, and Peer Support.


Since my abuser’s conviction in 2018, I have dedicated myself to peer support and systemic reform, connecting with and supporting dozens of survivors both virtually and in person. My advocacy focuses on breaking the specific stigmas surrounding male survivors of sexual abuse and ensuring that victims are heard, validated, and accommodated.


To expose the structural deficiencies within the education system, I collaborated extensively on a year-long CBC investigative journalism project. This deep-dive investigation into the institutional failures of the Ottawa-Carleton District School Board (OCDSB) and broader educational systems resulted in two landmark media pieces:


  • The investigative feature: No More Secrets
  • CBC Ottawa’s inaugural documentary podcast series: The Band Played On


Call to Action: Systemic Legislative Reform


Through public speaking and media engagements, I continue to highlight the ongoing risks children face within educational institutions. True prevention and accountability require an immediate departure from historical cultures of secrecy and institutional self-preservation.


I am actively calling on policymakers, school boards, and community leaders to implement bold, structural changes centered on:

  1. Absolute Transparency: Eliminating the practice of quietly transferring compromised staff between schools ("passing the trash").
  2. Mandatory Reporting Compliance: Enforcing strict legal penalties for administrators who fail to immediately report disclosures to law enforcement and child welfare agencies.
  3. Trauma-Informed Victim Support: Establishing robust, independent support frameworks for students who come forward, ensuring they are protected rather than silenced.


We cannot alter the injustices of the past, but we possess the collective responsibility and tools to mandate a safer, fully accountable future for Canada's youth.



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Peter Hamer's biography

Peter has worked in the healthcare sector for over 25 years. Most recently, he stepped down as the Chief Executive Officer for a family health team west of Ottawa. His decision to do this was fuelled by his desire to focus on his advocacy work and spend more time with his family. 


Peter continues to work as a medical practice management consultant in the healthcare sector, sharing his experience and knowledge with many groups in Ottawa and surrounding areas. 


Previously, Peter worked for OntarioMD, (a subsidiary of the Ontario Medical Association) and the Canadian Medical Association. 


Prior to his work in healthcare, Peter was a full-time martial arts instructor, having achieved the rank of 3rd degree black belt in jiu-jitsu.

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